F.A.Q.

I have done my best to provide an extensive amount of information on this site, as well as make it as easy as possible to see me. Though the site is big, all the most important info you need; my schedule, rates, contact info, terms of engagement, and booking request, are all located on the Rates/Schedule page. If you still don't have the information you are looking for, please contact me.

Squirt?

There are so many various questions asked about my special talent. What i would like to share in advance:
I squirt on purpose, not on accident and i have always been multi-orgasmic with remarkable ease, with or without squirting. Women who experience female ejaculation rarely have control of when or how often they squirt (it either happens every time they orgasm, or randomly and unpredictably) so not only do i have this unusual and amazing talent but i also have the even more unusual ability to control it. As long as i am hydrated, and with just the right stimulation, I can squirt quite quickly. With more arousal and intensity, the stream gets bigger. No, its definitely not urine that I squirt. (I can aim my urine - i have no aim when squirting and put all the responsibility on you to put yourself in or out of the undetermined splash zone.) There are similarities, but also distinct differences between the two fluids. Feel free to ask me for more details when we meet - but be warned, i will answer.

Are you available?

This is mostly here for comic relief. There is no need to ask this question. It is just a waste of time, especially if the goal is to see me as quickly as possible. The ball is solidly in the potential suitor's court, along with exact instructions on how to volley. In theory, of course, i am available. I don't maintain this site, posts, ads, tweets, etc because i am not available. However, i am NOT A PIZZA. And honestly, even to get a pizza you would need to provide a minimum amount of info, such as your location and exactly how much pizza you want...and how much sense does it make to call the pizza place up and ask them if a pizza is available???? The hours of operation are posted, and the process for how to get a pizza is clearly published. So is mine. What the person asking really wants to know is whether I am willing to meet with them in particular (screening info), on a specific day, at a specific time, for a specific length of time, at a specific location (incall/outcall/certain part of town) - conveniently, these are exactly the same questions put forth on my booking request. This is the absolute minimum amount of info i need in order to make a decision (Sometimes it feels like they think they are the only ones choosing and i should just be hot and ready, just like grab and go pizza, happy for anyone at all to eat me.) and plans, and delaying getting it to me reduces my opportunity to make it happen. Short notice is asking for MORE not less. To be honest, it is rarely even possible for me since i am not willing to cancel on friends and family to accommodate, and i am never just lying around doing nothing. I have a whole other professional persona as a kinkysexual sexpert educator, plus a highly functioning, healthy, happy polycule of long term relationships. I have a most ambitiously adventurous life, which has given me the unmatched skills and kinkysexual knowledge that makes me exceptional in this industry. In all these years i have never once posted about being bored, or wanting company, or needing someone to help me out. It simply is not my style. I prefer anticipation and planning. I actually teach a class entitled "Obsessive Compulsive Planning for Awesome Spontaneous Sex". So, although i will always do my best for any suitor who respects my process and immediately sends me the completed booking request or P411 appt request, finding oneself caught up, for a time, in my grand adventure will likely require a bit of planning. As a dedicated hedonist determined to be enjoying life at all times, I am super selective and will only make plans with someone if i can be truly excited and looking forward to the encounter. Be that suitor, and i have no doubt in my ability to exceed your expectations and broaden your horizons. So the short answer to the question "Are you available?" is "Please submit a booking request".

Where is your incall?

My rate, business, and life are structured so that I can do whatever I want, including providing the best available hotel anywhere that is convenient. Even if I already have accommodations, I could still book new ones if the part of town I am in is not convenient for you, given enough notice and incentive. My best advice is to make me want it. Please submit a booking request.

If things are going well will i be able to extend?

"If things are going well" meaning you are feeling extra stamina? Because, love, it would be a downgrade for a tryst with me to 'go well'. I am always shooting for stellar (entendre always intended) so i encourage to you raise your bar as i will still exceed expectations. Since this question is nearly exclusively asked by those booking an hour i will first point out i do always prefer and recommend two+ hours for a first date. There is just a ton of fun to be had for two strangers and i have quite an unusual life which has resulted in an unmatched palette of erotic knowledge, experience, and skill sets. I also offer 90min. But, to answer the question more directly, I book no more than one a day, so it is almost always possible to extend, but the math works out better if you plan ahead for longer because once we are together my one hour base rate will apply to any extension - not the pre-discounted rate chart for booking longer in advance. For example: A 1hr booking is $500. A 2hr booking is $900. To extend from 1hr to 2hrs in session will be an additional $500. You save $100 by planning (as opposed to hoping) for it to 'go well' and booking longer from go.

How far will you travel for an outcall? Is there an additional fee?

My rate, business, and life are structured so that I can do whatever I want given enough notice. I rarely feel the need to add any extra fee, but if your request is such that i do require an additional fee this information will be included in my reply to your booking request.

Are your visiting dates flexible? Would it be possible for you to be in [insert location] on [insert date]?

Initial posted tour dates are an estimated projection based on a whole host of data points, including long standing bookings. The dates and destinations are not inaccurate, and yet allow for adjustments as i fill in the schedule. I will always be where i have confirmed plans so the very best way to be sure i am exactly when and where you want me is to complete a booking request with as much notice as possible. I travel for a number of reasons (presenter/performer for events, guest instructor at fitness facilities, friends, family, fun, tourism, etc), and escort along the way. There are places i will for sure be on certain dates, and there are all the in between places i can be, given a good and hard reason. At this point, i also have a collection of eclectic suitors - living in remote locations or with disabilities mostly - for whom i often make special detours which may cause my route to seem odd or result in my ads and site having slightly different visiting dates due to limitations of the site, discretion of location on certain dates, proximity of multiple destinations, and flexibility of schedule. So...that is all a long winded way of explaining there are extra days built into my schedule on purpose and i often make plans and detour to locations not listed, add locations after i have a confirmed booking, and add days to a location once fully booked but still getting requests. I am nothing if not accommodating. In truth, i am never anywhere without confirmed plans and adjust my schedule constantly to cater to the requests/desires of the best rather than handle/tolerate/manage the rest. I prefer this to trying to divine when and where i will be wanted and pick locations and dates arbitrarily - and then, well, hope is what that amounts to...sitting around hoping is not my style.

Do you require a deposit?

I require a deposit before booking a double (see my doubles page for details) and for requests requiring adjustments or additional advance expenses. Some other engagements (not all) may require an advance depending on the circumstances. I am not requiring a deposit because i don't want to accommodate...quite the opposite. One who plans ahead and enables me by securing our plans is my priority and preference and i will make the world revolve around them with gratitude. Deposits absolutely secure our time together. It immediately lets me know you are truly excited to spend time with me. Feeling desired is inspiring! A deposit makes a process that can be risky and stressful into one more akin to a relaxing spa day. I get to blissfully make all the arrangements and prepare myself for an exciting encounter without worry. It makes planning accommodations and making travel arrangements easier too. I provide six easy and discreet ways to send a deposit and can usually find an alternative if those methods are not acceptable or viable for you. All the details will be in my confirmation mail when i reply to your booking request.

I would like to purchase pix and clips, where can i find them?

I made a decision early on in my pursuit of happiness, to hold back on publishing physical materials beyond what i publish for advertising. I have been collecting all the footage of my grand adventure of a life all along the way and will be releasing them only as part of my plan for jubilación. You can wait until then, or catch me live when i perform on chaturbate.

When will you be visiting (insert location here)?

I post tour dates and destinations to my Rates/Schedule page which i personally update almost daily, usually weeks ahead of posting ads. My 5000+ member yahoo group, along with all other yahoo groups, is no more, so i also often send out courtesy mails to anyone whom i have seen or who has previously contacted me from those destinations. I do not send more than three courtesy mails without a reply so please always reply even if you are not able to see me that visit.

That said, waiting for me to be where you are is certainly not the best way to see me. I do not travel randomly. In truth, i rarely go anywhere until after i have confirmed plans. Sometimes those plans are industry related, sometimes professional in some other capacity and sometimes personal in nature. This is why some locations are advertised in more places than others, or with more or less advance notice. Often once i have a reason to be in a location i will then plan a visit to other nearby locations to take advantage of the travel as much as possible. I do exactly what i want. I maintain constant advertising so that i can choose who i want to see, and as a result i have the absolute best people on the planet come (spend time) with me.

Making plans with me makes you my priority and is absolutely the best way to be sure you get exactly when/where/what you want. Truly, anything is possible and it is not at all difficult. In fact, all it takes to get me to just about any location is a confirmed and secured 2+ hour appointment, plus travel expenses. The farther in advance you plan, the more affordable the travel. If you live in a city where i can reasonably make a visit out of it, and plan far enough in advance, you don't even have to cover my expenses. It all starts with my super easy and discreet booking request.

I see your schedule says you are visiting (Location A). (Location B) is near by, any possible way you could visit?

Anything is possible but i am going to need more information than that and the sooner i have it, the more likely i am to be able to accommodate. I do exactly what i want. My best advice is make me want it. Please submit a booking request.

Will you have toys? What do you bring with you?

I am an over achiever and quite the boy scout. I will have insertable toys for myself, supplies (condoms, gloves, lube, waterproof pads), water, digital aids, and accessories for your toys, such as harness, straps and ties. I do not provide insertables for other people as part of my safer sex practices. I also have a tremendous collection of BDSM toys, impact toys and other kinkier items and supplies available but be sure to let me know in advance that this is what you had in mind. I often have other items with me as well. It depends on where and how i am traveling. I will also likely have anything else you might need, like a comb or lint brush. Just ask.

I have a high profile career and discretion is a big concern. I am worried about submitting my private information but I would like to spend time with you. How can we proceed?

There are several ways in which people manage this. Often when celebrities or high profile sports figures, or important political figures contact me, they do not do so directly. They utilize either a legal pseudonym, or someone who works for them to complete the vetting info and they send a deposit, or often pay in full in advance. Then when we meet, they confess the deceit and all is well. On occasion I have been asked is sign a NDA. I am happy to do this in person, but not in advance. They also often insist on hosting at their location, and i have experienced security precautions that included being lightly frisked. None of this is bothersome to me. I understand the need for discretion and security. I can perhaps appeal to your logic as well. It is actually extremely rare for a high end escort to ever publicly out her clients and even when it has happened it was more often an act of the legal system rather than an act on the part of the escort herself. The real concern lies not with the escort, but with the associates around you that know you are seeing an escort. In my opinion, the absolute MOST discreet way to go about it, is to keep absolutely everything between you and the escort and not involve any outside persons at all. You are safer giving your info to me then you are confessing to anyone at all that you are seeing an escort. I do not have and will never have an agenda to do damage or cause stress, whereas the people around you very well might, if not now, then at some point in the future.

I (insert random reason why you don't want to screen here), is there a way to still see you?

Probably, depending on how reasonable you are. Submit the booking request with only the scheduling details and email. You will get an email with discreet instructions on how to proceed. You can also contact me for phone/cam sessions on NiteFlirt.

But, I have a question of my own. Have you actually looked at my booking request? I have made it as simple as possible. There are 4 options. Perhaps it isn't as invasive as you think. Everyone that has seen me has been vetted, including individuals that surely do have every reason to be discreet. The only result any of them experienced was bliss. I am not in the least bit motivated to compromise because what i am doing is getting me exactly what i want. I could not possibly be happier with the gentlemen i spend my time with.

I have a particular fetish/request. Is it OK to ask you about it?

This is such a difficult topic. While i want to encourage you to explore as deeply into your sexual expression as possible, and i want you to know that i am a safe, knowledgable, and exceptionally talented woman to explore with, because we are in the United States there is still a legal line we cannot cross. While is is perfectly OK for you to put in an email or booking request what it is you are interested in, what you like, or what you have done before, it is, unfortunately, still not OK for you to ask me in email or on the phone to agree or not agree to any particular activity in advance. If you do ask me I am forced to remind you that i am paid for my time and companionship only and anything else is between consenting adults. With me, and possibly with other talent, it is safe to assume that i will only set the appointment if i am very sure we will both leave blissful. In addition, while i do understand that your average adult companion has little experience in the areas of kink, fetish, and BDSM, it is a bit exhausting for me to get these questions. It is well documented that I actually teach classes all over the nation at fetish and kink events. I feel quite safe in stating that we are going to reach your limits before we reach mine. I am also strongly of the opinion that if you really want something done right, it is unreasonable to expect it of a stranger. I would suggest that scheduling with me and allowing us to discuss/practice/plan in person, where everything is discreetly and intimately kept between us, is a better strategy. If your budget or personality is such that you feel a compelling need to have your questions answered explicitly you can always contact me on , where conversely, we cannot talk about meeting realtime, but we can talk about anything that falls under 'fantasy', so you can test my knowledge.

I am (insert ethnicity/culture/skin tone/religion here). Will you see me?

I don't know. But if i don't see you, that will not be the reason. :-) To find out if i will see you, i will need a bit more info. Please submit a booking request on my site and i will get right back to you. You will notice that your skin tone/ethnicity/culture/religion is not one of the questions.

I am: disabled/in a wheelchair/have medical apparatus/disfigured/an amputee/partially or fully paralyzed/diagnosed with a non-contagious condition such as Parkinson's, CP, or MS. Will you see me?

YES! I do wish there were reviews so i would not have to toot my own horn here, But, put simply, I am extremely handicap accessible :-). I am strong, sweet, and tuned in to the likely changes in function and erogenous zones. And no, it doesn't turn me off in the least. Come find out for yourself.

Are you available on Holidays?

I AM ALWAYS AVAILABLE TO SCHEDULE ON HOLIDAYS! When i first started escorting i remember thinking it was so odd the gents would give me their ethnicity. When i asked about this what i was told is that a lot of girls will not see non-Caucasian gentlemen. This, to me is absurd. I will never turn down the company of a cultured gentleman because of his skin tone or beliefs. As a result of being open to these men and spending time with them i learned that holidays can be difficult sometimes, especially if they are far away from their families, because friends and associates are busy, but since it is not a holiday they celebrate, they are alone. For that reason, i made the decision to always make myself available for scheduling on the holidays. And Caucasian fellows, by all means you are not left out. If you do not celebrate or find yourself separated from family on the holidays, rest assured you can contact me and i will be happy to be your holiday celebration.

Do you offer half hour appointments or special arrangements?

I will not discuss any sort of appointment that isn't already published on my site with someone i have not met before, and even with those i have met i prefer to make any sort of special arrangements face to face for discretion. I do always prefer and recommend two+ hours in a typically private setting - your place or mine - for a first time encounter. There is a ton of fun to be had for two strangers and i am not like anyone you have ever met before...it is nice to be able to take advantage of what makes me different - and i don't just mean my fountainous orgasms. My suggestion to those with a preference for quickies or special arrangements outside the typically private setting is to book our first encounter for an hour or more in private as suggested, which will allow us to discuss and make any agreement or arrangement we want once we are together. I am at a complete disadvantage having not met you but i have no doubt in my ability to find our mutual pleasure point once i have.

Would you allow me to take photos or video?

Ask me again once we are together.

How do I make a deposit or pay in advance?

I offer multiple deposit/pre-pay options for your convenience and i will include the applicable options in my response to your booking request, whether the deposit is required or not. All the options are discreet by design.

You seemingly never stop traveling, so why Austin for home base? (Usually asked with just a little snark from a New Yorker or other Tier 1 City Dweller)

Well, the obvious answers are music and art, and that is true, but there are really far better reasons to come to Austin, and stay. Austin has all the sexy people, and i do not mean the SWers...i mean the general population is just smokin hot, especially for not being a very big place. My theory is genetic pooling. All the most attractive people from every small TX town came to Austin over the generations and made babies. Austin music culture means DANCING. Austin folks know how to DANCE...when we take a group to just about any other city, including New Orleans, everyone just gets out of the way and watches. We shuffle, we dub, we salsa, we line...Austin is for dancers. You really can't beat the weather without drastically increasing your cost of living. It is beautiful almost always and close enough to the dessert to shake the humidity suffered in Houston, plus it cools off a night, which is good for dancing outside! Because the weather is so nice, all the sexy people wear minimal clothing and we do EVERYTHING outside. Almost all venues provide an outdoor space, restaurants, bars, dance clubs, music venues, flo art, yoga, LED parties, foam parties...everything you do inside in the big city, we do outside in the open air, day or night, thanks to the endless sunshine and clear skies for optimal moonlight. There is water everywhere...every kind of river or lake activity you ever thought of, and almost completely year around. We also have something for everyone...unlike the rest of Texas, Austin is a progressive place and allows alternative and minority communities to thrive by providing healthcare and support and protective legislation. I could probably keep on going for another half a page, but i will conclude with the food. Austin is for foodies. We have the BEST food in the nation. I don't just mean tasty either. If you have diet restrictions of any kind, vegan, gluten intolerance, allergies, it is nearly impossible to find food after 10pm, even in NYC. Not here in Austin. You can have the most delicious vegan pancakes of your life at 4am, any day of the year. So, why Austin? The endless variety of tacos always 'AVAILABLE NOW', of course.

Will you marry me?

This is actually a fairly frequently asked question and i would sincerely appreciate if it were not. I know that this tongue-in-cheek question is intended to be flattering, but it isn't. So, unless you really do intend to marry me, please do not ask. Thank you. Instead, tell me what you are actually feeling. I love shameless displays of adoration and affection. :-)

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